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In trying to untangle the onslaught of Trump’s cruelty I read Mariann Edgar Budde’s book, How We Learn to be Brave: Decisive Moments in Life and Faith.

In an example of perseverance, she writes about a sermon she heard given by the late Harvard Chaplain Peter Gomes.  He spoke of Ernest Gordon who wrote the memoir of his three-year captivity in a Japanese prison camp that was made into two films, The Bridge on the River Kwai and To End All Wars.  At first Gordon and his fellow captives were very religious and prayed and expected that God would rescue them.  Many died and others became disillusioned and stopped praying and believing, but then, “something shifted as they responded to the needs of their fellow prisoners, as they cared for and protected them and witnessed others sacrificing their lives in love.”

They began to speak about God in their midst.  “This was not a revival of religion in the conventional sense, but rather the discovery that faith was not what you believed but what you did for others when it seemed you could do nothing at all.”

Budde then writes about Reinhold Niebuhr who wrote what we now know as the Serenity Prayer. Niebuhr also wrote:

Nothing worth doing can be achieved in a lifetime; therefore we must be saved by hope. Nothing that is true or beautiful or good makes complete sense in any immediate context of history; therefore we must be saved by faith. Nothing that we do, however virtuous, can be accomplished alone; therefore we are saved by love.

David Whyte writes about courage.

Courage is the measure of our heartfelt participation with life, with another, with a community, a work, a future. To be courageous is not necessarily to go anywhere or do anything except to make conscious those things we already feel deeply and then to live through the unending vulnerabilities of those consequences. To be courageous is to stay close to the way we are made.

This evening I entered The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows by John Koenig.  He introduces the book with this:

 “This is not a book about sadness – at least, not in the modern sense of the word.  The word sadness originally meant “fullness” from the same Latin root, satis that also gave us sated and satisfaction.  Not so long ago, to be sad meant you were filled to the brim with some intensity of experience. It wasn’t just a malfunction in the joy machine. It was a state of awareness – setting the focus to infinity and taking it all in, joy and grief all at once. When we speak of sadness these days, most of the time what we really mean is despair; which is literally defined as the absence of hope. But true sadness is actually the opposite, an exuberant upwelling that reminds you how fleeting and mysterious and open-ended life can be. That’s why you’ll find traces of blues all over this book, but you might find yourself strangely joyful at the end of it. And if you are lucky enough to feel sad, well, savor it while it lasts – if only because it means that you care about something in this world enough to let it under your skin.”