Time

My five year old grandson called me yesterday so excited to tell me that the watch he got for his birthday matches the clock at his school.  They are the same.  He also told me about the hands, the three hands, the red second hand that goes so quickly round and round.

I realized I was older when I got my first watch and maybe never had the concept they wouldn’t be the same, or the realization of how amazing that is.

His parents feel they have to move.  They won’t raise their child in a dictatorship which Trump, Vance, and Musk have declared this will be, for our own good, since they know best.  

I don’t see where one can go.   We share a planet.  We are tied.  We may be in different time zones but the minutes match.

Plants grow among the rocks.

Gathering, Honoring, Sharing

Yesterday I read about and visited a new park in Greenbrae called “Alex’s Playground and Discovery Gardens”.  Alex was 7 when nearly five years ago, he died in a horrific and tragic accident at his school. 

Several months before he died, he told his mother if anything ever happened to him, he would be a baby hummingbird so that he could be with her.

The day after he died, his mother saw a small hummingbird in their garden who was there for a brief moment and then flew off with a friend.  

Recently his mother was attending a show by the Lego sculptor Sean Kenney when she saw a giant hummingbird built with 31,565 Lego bricks, its bill in an equally large Lego flower.

She was able to buy it and now today it sits in a new playground that the family is donating in memory of Alex.

I think of the gazebo in Blackie’s Pasture in Tiburon and the playground in Boyle Park in Mill Valley, both honoring the loss of a child.   What a beautiful way to honor the loss, to create a place where children gather, laugh, and play.

The sculpture also is a reminder of the Hummingbird Alliance, a nonprofit the family formed after Alex’s death to push for stronger gate safety rules. 

Lego Hummingbird and Flower
A cathedral of leaves to walk through
Looking up to climb and slide
Love with your whole heart like Alex!

Fun for the Day

Ron Charles writes about books in The Washington Post. In today’s post, he lauds my good friend Marlene. Enjoy!

Ron Charles:

Back in February, I mentioned how entranced I was by the Baker Creek Heirloom Seeds catalogue. Alas, my excitement was never made manifest in an actual garden. But at least I inspired Book Club reader Marlene Buono to order a variety of heirloom seeds from Baker Creek. 

Marlene writes:

“Though you can’t tell from the photo, the cucumbers have the best sense of humor. They are the tricksters of the summer garden as they let you harvest three or four of them in the morning, then by nightfall, there are five more to pick, none of the which were there eight hours ago. The tomatoes yell out, ‘Subterfuge!’ to the cucumbers (with whom they share a raised bed), but the cucumbers are too caught up in their game of hide-and-seek to listen, let alone figure out what the word ‘subterfuge’ means. The tomatoes prefer to be seen and plucked when ripe, and do not consider keeping mum about their location even mildly funny.”

I would definitely read a seed catalogue written by Marlene.

For next year’s tomatoes, she says, “I may try the Abe Lincoln Original and the Paul Robeson, since I’m feeling patriotic having filled out my ballot with the hopes of putting a woman in charge.” 

At Good Earth yesterday, a woman in charge of cheese dressed for Halloween!
Happy to pose for photos!

Sanity

Today I walked Tennessee Valley to the beach after reading this from Lisa Friedman, the climate reporter for the NY Times:

During his presidency, Donald Trump dissolved more than 100 environmental regulations. If elected again, he would kill any federal effort to study and fight climate change, encourage oil and gas companies to “Drill, Baby, Drill” and restrict the government agency that protects air and water.

I returned home to learn that a quarter-million Washington Post readers canceled their subscriptions after Jeff Bezos declined to allow the paper to endorse Kamala Harris, a figure first reported by NPR and then by The Post itself. That is about 10 percent of the total circulation. 

While walking, I remembered being on Monhegan Island almost 30 years ago.  A man had fallen down a cliff and rescuers rappelled down to bring him up on ropes.  There were no roads or cars so a group of us alternated, three on each side,  one in front, and one in back, carrying the stretcher along the paths to the dock where he could be put on a boat. On an island, it’s clear we’re in this together, but this earth is also an island,  a fragile environment we share.  We’re interdependent.  We care.  

Heart shell on the beach
Flow
Sounds of frogs – an environment that’s clean

Bernie

My vote has already been counted and I’ve been clear on who I support, not saying she is perfect, or that I agree with everything that’s going on, but come on. Here’s Bernie stressing what’s at stake in this election. Thank you Bernie!

Love and Compassion

I continue to be shocked by the MAGA campaign culminating last night at Madison Square Garden.  I savor clouds floating over the ridge, and soothe with words of the Dalai Lama.  

“Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. 

Without them, humanity cannot survive.”

Clouds move through a blue sky!

Celebration

This is my week to celebrate turning and being 75 years old.  A friend reminds me that we read the book The Second Half of Life by Angeles Arrien when we turned 50. My friend is re-visiting the book, and so now am I.  Its meaning is both different and the same as 25 years ago.  We are a process after all.  We are verbs, not nouns.  And as the body says “I am a fiesta,” I feel more clearly the unifying fiesta of body, mind, and spirit. How glorious it is to be alive and aware of each moment as precious, and a gift.

Eduardo Galeano – in Walking Words 

The Church says: The body is a sin.

Science says: The body is a machine.

Advertising says: The body is a business.

The body says: I am a fiesta.  

Mermaid skeleton – who knows what evolves
Autumn Abundance
Up and down
Tide coming into the marsh
Fragrance

Nature

Today I was at the Sonoma Botanical Garden.

I’m with these words of Rachel Carson:

Those who contemplate the beauty of the earth find reserves of strength that will endure as long as life lasts.

The Lower Pond
Reflecting
What’s real?
Intricacy

Freedom

Last night I read an excerpt from Alexei Navalny’s memoir on how and why he gave his life for freedom.

https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2024/10/21/alexei-navalny-patriot-memoir

Today, Heather Cox Richardson explains very clearly what a Trump election would mean. It’s Hitler’s playbook, repeated.

There’s so much at stake and yet there are people who aren’t seeing it. I was at a party on Saturday astonished at some of the statements, and so here we are, and we will all be grateful when the campaigning is over, and we know which way the country goes.

Honoring Peace and discussion that honors Truth in Speech