My friend has now been in the hospital and a skilled nursing facility for almost two weeks.  She is still using a poorly designed bedpan.  Her spirits are good, and yet, there is this one issue.  She’s looked on Amazon for possibilities, but so far, no luck.  Is there anyone out there with the creative skills to find a solution to this very important problem?

What I’m seeing in her healing confinement is the reminder that though we might feel we’re not contributing when we’re stuck in one place, we actually are.  When I was going through chemo and radiation, a friend pointed out I was a still point for those around me.  

I was the eye, the calm, the center of the hurricane that life can sometimes be. My friend in her bed is truly present for her friends, for all those who come around, and as we rummage around in life’s emotion, distraction, and confusion, she offers clarity, humor, and insights.

Thank you Patty.