I was at the dentist yesterday. The office is decorated with pumpkins and bats.
Last night, a warm night, I lay outside on the deck with the moon and stars. Then, the wind blew in as though bringing threads to connect a time of year when the veil between the living and the dead thins.
I’m with this quote by Audre Lorde:
We have to consciously study how to be tender
with each other until it becomes a habit.


